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starchazion:

In my humble opinion

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littlestpersimmon:

Rachamim 🕯🤎

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emry-stars-art:

emry-stars-art:

As promised while I work on more asks: chibi beach episode foxes

Dont reblog yet tho I have more

Okay now you can reblog

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littlestpersimmon:

Run away with me, kind sir

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thememedaddy:

one time a casual hockey fan tried to convey this experience to me from the other side as: “it’s like… okay, imagine that you like donuts, and you meet a guy who also likes donuts, and you’re like, hey, cool, we both like donuts! but this guy… he built his house out of donuts”

so now when I trip into a new fandom I’m like “oh shit I’m building this house out of donuts”

[Image ID: Tweet from @/ warnerbff on 22.03.23 reading: talking to someone with the same interests as you and realizing they’re a casual enjoyer while you’re deranged /End ID]

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c-ptsdrecovery:

c-ptsdrecovery:

A lot of us have trouble with self-care because we were taught by early caregivers never to put our own self-interest first.

Here’s the thing: in a perfect society, people would look out for each other, right? Because each person deserves to have people looking out for them. But sometimes there isn’t another person who can take care of you.

You are the person with the primary responsibility of looking out for you. 

Little kids’ parents have that primary responsibility, but when the kid reaches a certain age, they are the one with that primary responsibility.

Yes, you have some level of obligation to take care of friends and family and the needy, but the one person everyone can agree that you definitely have the responsibility to take care of is you. 

Think of it like a logic puzzle. Every person deserves to have somebody taking care of them. You are in a situation where nobody else is going to take care of you or nobody else can take care of you. You still deserve to have somebody taking care of you, and you are the person with the primary responsibility to do that. 

Yes, there are times when we don’t put ourselves first, for whatever reason, but for a lot of us, we have abandoned ourselves and have stopped fulfilling that responsibility to care for ourselves. You are as deserving of care as anybody else, and you are your primary caregiver: if you don’t do it, who will?

#i was talking with my sister about this a few days ago #and it’s like.. this is exactly why my siblings and i thrive when we’re together #it’s not the only reason but it is a big factor #because none of us are all that good at caring for ourselves but we’re all pretty set on making sure everyone else #is cared for and loved and supported #within the 4 of us at least #it makes it so much harder then when you have this perfect organism-esque society to then leave. cut off like an apendage #and trying to keep sending and recieving signals of care but what you really have to do is turn inward and ask what do *I* need. #and how does one prioritize those needs when you were built to prioritize the greater whole #it’s rough man. let me tell you. #it feels wrong #it was easier when i lived with my best friend in college because she was someone i could care for #and once i knew she was fed and as well as i could help her be. then i could turn and meet my own needs #but living on your own.. it doesn’t work like that #living as an adult with real adult responisibilities and life-determined requirements doesn’t work like that #anyway sorry for the excessive tags.. #basically. i’m trying   tags via @bookishjules

tencents121:

i’m mad again because being nonbinary and afab means that i can dress masc to an extent when i want to and my decently religious family doesn’t think anything of it, but amab people who dress even slightly femininely are instantly questioned so much of the time

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rongzhi:

sudden violence

margaretqualleytruther:

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